Pat Stedman Masterclass
INTRODUCING: THE PAT STEDMAN MASTERCLASS
The fastest and most effective way to change your outcomes with women, of course, is to do coaching.
(Which is why you will get an invitation to apply after purchase)
But there is one problem with coaching.
It’s expensive.
And not just for you, the client.
But for me too.
You see, “The Masterclass” — which I’m going to explain to you in just a minute — was not actually developed to be a course for individual sale.
I filmed it because by the summer of 2019 I was at a breaking point.
Business was going well.
But it was almost going too well.
I had so many clients, I was on calls 35+ hours each week. The amount of time on the phone on a given day was 6, 8, sometimes 10 hours. On top of the rest of my work for the business, it was amounting to 70+ hour weeks… and I was getting burned out.
Moreover, I was starting to realize that I was getting burned out for no reason.
Almost every day I’d have the same conversation with a different guy. And as I got more clear on what was essential for these men to understand, and what they had to do to shift their situation… it started to hit me…
Why am I saying the same thing over and over again, when I can record it?
So I developed a plan.
I would create a lower-priced coaching program with this course as the backbone.
It would be an “encyclopedia” chock full of all the insights and advice that reformed not only mine but my clients’ dating lives, tripled their number of friends, and saved their marriages. The program would have less 1-1 time with me, but with the course it would achieve similar results.
It would be a win-win for me and my clients. They would save money, I’d make more, but I’d also get to help more guys.
But something happened after I recorded the course.
After talking all day for 3 days straight, covering topic after topic…
I realized it was so good, had SO much critical yet often neglected information in this field…
It HAD to be sold on its own.
Because lets face it.
Even if the price of coaching was lower, not everyone could still afford to drop a couple grand.
But ANYBODY serious about improving their outcomes with women can afford a $650 course.
Especially one over 18+ hours long covering in depth practically every ESSENTIAL topic pertaining to women. Each of the six modules are 2-3 hours long, plus nearly two hours of a “bonus” Q&As.
We’re going to get to the details of all of that in a minute.
But before I explain what’s inside this course… I want to make two things clear.
First, understand that the material in this course is VERY dense and detailed. I do not recommend you watch more than 30 minutes a day – definitely not more than an hour. It’s the sort of stuff you want to sit with, and allow to get into your unconscious mind. Indeed, I strongly suggest you watch through this series twice.
Second…
This course is NOT a magic bullet.
Transformations occur because people take ACTION.
If you just consume this material and don’t go out and apply it… you will be getting 20% of the value.
Information is great… but you will not fully appreciate the levels to what I have revealed to you unless you are out there using it.
You need to interact with this material — you must see and feel its truth — in order to internalize the lessons.
Remember the formula:
Wisdom + Application = Growth.
Skip half of the equation, and you will be in the slow lane.
With that in mind, let’s talk about what I’ve put together for you.
Module 1 – Deep Psychology, Energy, and Frame
This module is oriented around transforming negative beliefs, orchestrating self-healing, and building up your confidence. Along with this “inner work,” it also shows you how to improve your “vibe” and solidify your mindset around women.
In this module, topics include:
- the nature of “self-sabotage”… and how to stop it
- the difference between intuition and fear, and how to make good decisions
- what is “frame”… and how to build it up, so you have full control when interacting with women
- men and women based on evolutionary psychology – the real “role” of men
- the 2 basic things you *need* to do when talking to women if you want them in your frame
- what is “energy” and how to read it in different environments
- the first, essential question you need to ask yourself before proceeding in any interaction with a woman (the vast majority of guys ignore this – it’s one of the most important sections in the course)
- Jordan Peterson flawed understanding of men and women… how you should be really thinking of yourself compared to a woman
- the role of a father in your life, and why you might need to have a “talk” with him
- frame on a societal level and on a interpersonal level
- how to understand MBTI personality typing (and why it helps you to do better with women)
- the role of diet and exercise in success with women (hint: it’s not how it makes you look)
- victim-perpetrator dynamics – how they are stagnating your love life, and how to break the cycle
- “nice guys” vs “good guys” – the subtle difference, of why the former creep out women and not the latter
- a major revelation in quantum mechanics you can use to improve your results with women (seriously)
- how men and women interact with energy differently, and why it matters for how you attract them
- low, middle, and high vibration people – and how their lives are different
- the mistake guys whose lives are improving almost always make… and how it can send them back years, if not derail their entire life
- how to handle when a girl asks you if you are “seeing other girls”
- the “right” way to masturbate that can actually improve your results with women
- why wanting women to “do everything you want” is NOT an “alpha mindset”… and is guaranteed to end up biting you in the you-know-where
- a simple mistake most men make that causes you to immediately lose the frame with women
- “captain save a ‘ho” and “white knighting” explained, and how to “kill it” in yourself
- the ULTIMATE source of frame, and the secret to becoming mentally unbreakable
- esoteric secrets revealed: your energy body vs physical body
- the seasons of your life… how to know which one you’re in, and how this will affect your relationships
- energy “amplitude vs frequency” and its real-world consequences
- cognitive functions and their use in mapping your personal growth
- Donald Trump’s “frame control” secret (love him or hate him, this lesson is invaluable)
- the wrong way to get sex from a woman that destroys your position with her longterm
- the truth about “discipline”… and why it can actually make you less effective
- the simple yet crucial thing “strong” men do around women that weak men always avoid
- the effects of your childhood on your results with women… and how to reverse the trauma
- can women “smell” when you’re using porn? what to do
- the secret behind Rhonda Byrnes “The Secret” she doesn’t want you to know
- your values, vision, and views – how to use these to not only date the right women, but to improve your results with them
- the simple “trick” you can use to break bad habits and stop avoiding the things you need to do
- “mommy-girlfriend” meme – addressing the baggage around your relationships with your mother
- why you really beat yourself up when you make a mistake… and how to break the pattern
- strong frame vs positive frame – the difference, and why it matters
- what every guy with self-esteem and negative self-talk does that is actually making it worse (and what to do instead)
- an essential daily practice that increases your ability to read other people
- how most guys interact with women that turns them off… and how to talk to a woman instead that will make her both feel connected to you and want to sleep with you
- what billionaires have always known about energy, and how you can use it to not only become rich in money… but rich in women
- the one thing you HAVE to do with your parents (even if they’re no longer around)
- savior complex: what causes it, and why it actually hurts the women you’re trying to help
- the one phrase all men need to internalize to succeed not only with women, but financially
- the 3 main centers of the body – and why women respond dramatically differently depending on which one you are speaking from
- why guys feel weak and powerless in relationships… and the one big “reframe” that flips the script on women
- why most “effective” dating advice can actually make your results with women worse
- what is really going on when a woman “rejects” you
- why “nice guys” don’t need to worry about becoming assholes to get girls
- the extremely common, attraction-devastating habit 80% of men have
- how to attract high-quality women towards you effortlessly
- PLUS much more!
Module 2 – Female Nature and Vetting Women
This module explains female sexual psychology, “girl game” and how to determine which women are long-term material… and which you should avoid. It also examines our weak spots around women and healthy vs unhealthy attachment-dynamics.
Topics in the module are:
- hypergamy and how much you should *really* care about it
- the biggest factor determining your relationship with women (hint: it’s not your wallet, your game, or your looks)
- how societal changes have effected female behavior
- why most women “drain the energy” out of men (and how you stop this dynamic)
- the role of feminism in shifting and amplifying attachment issues
- how the male ego works (and why a lack of awareness of this is so dangerous)
- the ideal woman (and how to find her… or cultivate her in your current girl)
- attachment style differences between men and women
- the truth around the “red pill” and why it is an incomplete solution to modern problems with women
- the connection between childhood trauma and relationship dynamics
- what happens to *every* relationship… and why it causes most of them to fall apart
- the dirty “truth” about what goes on in a woman’s head
- why in practice not all women are as “ruled” by hypergamy as others (this matters a lot when it comes to choosing women)
- the biggest “red flag” you need to screen for
- what women want more than ANYTHING else from men
- how girls REALLY “play the field” (hint: it’s not sex)
- girl game: what is it, and how you MUST protect yourself from it
- intelligence – why it matters in a woman, and what you should NOT confuse it with
- find out what women think about during “me time” – aka what it really is about erotica that makes women so horny
- what parts of the red pill to embrace, what parts to discard… and what will happen to your relationships with women if you don’t
- how to prevent the “sex crash” after the first 6-12 months of dating
- dating a virgin – what you should expect (and look out for)
- when it’s actually a positive if a girl is “gaming” you
- why women decide to “pursue” some men… then get tired of them later
- the two types of women desired by the male unconscious… and how to attract the ideal woman who matches both of them
- healthy masculine and feminine behavior vs unhealthy
- what to do if a girl has a large instagram (and a lot of male attention)
- neurolinguistic programming (NLP) – does it work?
- the key differences between what your average woman and a “keeper” want in a man
- 3 primary types of attachment – and how this determines your success with women
- “notch count” – the low down on a woman’s sexual past
- how women use sex to manipulate men… and how to turn this in your favor
- why you shouldn’t be too concerned if your woman has different beliefs than you
- the two types of women that are “works in progress”… and the one type you must avoid at all costs
- how to determine whether you’re “settling” or just emotionally avoidant
- how to change a woman’s beliefs to match your own
- the most important part of a relationship, bar none (don’t *ever* get serious with a girl without this)
- what “controlling behavior” says about a woman… and why you should be careful
- who usually ends the honeymoon phase and why
- “mommy-gf” meme – what it says about you (yes, you – if you’re a man, I’m talking to you)
- girls who have mostly guy friends – what this says about them (and how you should proceed)
- diagnosing your own attachment style and how to potentially change it
- girls who want to be pampered: should you date them?
- how a woman’s relationship with her father affects her relationship with you
- the four stages of female development (use this to decide if a girl is “girlfriend material”)
- why you need to be very careful about the women who enter your life during a “win streak”
- the top 2 things that indicate a woman is going to be difficult to date
- why the most attractive women are rarely what you *actually* want (hear me out)
- the sign you shouldn’t care much about a “girl’s values”
- are tattoos a bad sign? my honest and uncensored take
- the real purpose of a relationship (and why it should never get “boring”)
- the question you need to ask yourself if your woman isn’t giving you what you want (this cuts to the heart of the issue)
- the fatal mistake guys make when looking for “red flags” (it can actually trap them with the worst girls)
- “feisty” women – and what you can expect dating them
- the trait that transcends even personality compatibility in relationship success
- the list of criteria you should be looking for when it comes to female “attractiveness”
- AND much more!
Module 3 – Attraction and Game
This module discusses the “Three Pillars of Attraction,” the nature of masculinity and femininity, and breaks down approaching in-depth. It also explores all the key tactical applications of game.
Topics in the module are:
- how to create an automatic “lead generator” for new women
- your objective vs subjective value – and how it affects your attractiveness
- the easiest way anybody can increase the quality and quantity of women in their life
- how to psychologically dominate a woman (she’ll compare other guys to you for years)
- the truth about your “looks” and how much they matter to women
- how to practice approaching… without actually approaching (this is great for shy guys to get started)
- the 3 stages of a successful interaction with a woman, and why you must follow them in this order
- the 4 key ways to become “preselected” so women approach you
- “selling yourself” to women – the right way
- what needs to happen before you allow yourself to become interested in a girl
- how to handle it when a woman makes herself look stupid on a date
- the real reason most approaches and dates go poorly (women hate to tell you this, but it’s true)
- how to NEVER run out things to say with a woman
- cognitive dissonance in women and how to look for it
- the 2 types of persona (hint: one of these isn’t so good for you)
- how you can tell immediately whether a woman has a healthy personality or not
- the masculine shadow – and why you must confront it to become a man
- the mistake 9/10 men make that amplifies a woman’s bad moods
- understanding how to manage a woman’s emotional state
- the difference between “game” and “playing games” – and why no matter how attractive, you want to avoid women doing the latter
- the counterintuitive technique that ensures “rock solid frame” when talking to a woman
- when you absolutely *must* tell a girl you’re attracted to her from the moment you approach
- the 3 “energies” you must be bringing to a woman when you approach her
- approaching indirectly: is there a place for it among confident men? I explain
- push-pull dynamics with women – how to do them correctly and escalate rapidly
- which guys need to have more aggressive game than your typical man
- the “ethical” way to send mixed-messages to women
- the simple, “normal” skill that will make a girl addicted to you
- how to avoid being “fake” while gaming women
- “shit tests” – a comprehensive breakdown of what they are, and how to pass them
- assumptions: why they are so powerful, and how to become better at making them
- the annoying thing *all* women do when they like us (we hate this, but we shouldn’t)
- ignore the PUAs: why “being funny” isn’t a good way to attract women (do this instead)
- one of the most important concepts in attraction I learned from my mentor Nick Sparks
- why “the neg” is one of the most powerful techniques… but only *if* you do it in this important context
- what happens when you develop your personality the wrong way… and how to prevent this disaster
- the “blindspot” most men have with women that causes them to overanalyze (don’t do this)
- the mistake most beginners make with game that make women hate them (avoid this for obvious reasons lol)
- “psychological game” – what is it, why it’s so powerful, and how to harness it
- an advanced way to handle a woman playing games (nothing works better than this… if you do it right)
- “overgaming” – the most common reason this happens, and the surprisingly simple way to stop it
- the mistake every man “naturally” makes with women (unlearn this and you will never have to worry about drama again)
- money vs fame – which is more powerful?
- the difference between masculine and feminine energy
- how to create sexual tension naturally
- a fun, easy-to-implement technique on approaches that almost guarantees a girl will listen to what you have to say
- the “80/20 split” in game you need to internalize
- why “getting women to chase you” is the WRONG approach to dating (here’s what you should be doing)
- a simple, cheesy technique way to get a girl fantasizing about you and DESPERATE to see you again
- how to “change yourself” while staying true to yourself
- the difference between approaches that fall flat and those that “hook her” in
- the 2 types of “cold approaches” – what they are and when to use them
- the part of women you *must* accept if you want all of her love and femininity (this is difficult to do, but it will make her adore you)
- the “superpower” I have that allows me to read people quickly and accurately, no matter what they are saying (and how you can learn it too)
- a major sign your relationship is on the rocks… but why you shouldn’t give up hope
- what 99% of dating advice misses – this is so important it often ends up making guys do WORSE with women
- “amplification” – what it is, and why it works like a charm on women
- what women really want to feel from a man
- how introverts can attract women without being someone they’re not
- the most effective (and natural) technique I know for developing rapid attraction and connection
- what differentiates the “naturals” with women from the guys who focus on “systems” or “routines”
- what dancing and dating have in common (this makes attraction much easier to understand)
- a simple, powerful technique for developing attraction with a girl you’ve just met (this one will transform the way you think about conversations)
- becoming mysterious: a simple tactic you can implement on any date
- the easy and effortless “tactic” that gets women hooked on you
- why “awkwardness” on a date can actually be a very, very good thing (just make sure you handle it correctly)
- how to use “mixed messages” effectively to get women obsessed with “figuring you out”
- the right and wrong way to ask a girl questions (mess this up and you’ll be friend-zoned in minutes)
- an incredible “story-telling” technique
- what most “pick up artists” get wrong that the son of a poor farmer got right
- the counter-intuitive “tell” that a girl is ready for you to kiss her
- what you should be doing instead of asking her questions (forget this, and creating attraction becomes very difficult)
- rejecting women – how to do it the right way
- PLUS much more!
Module 4 – Dating Strategies and Social Dominance
This module discusses dating from a bird’s eye view as well as the different (and most effective) ways to meet and attract women. Online dating, day game, night game, are all covered here… as is the fastest and most effective way to build up a massive social circle.
Topics in the module are:
- the “ideal” first date – what you should do, where you should go and why
- how to choose exactly which photos you should put on your dating profile, no more, no less
- calling a girl – should you do it? I’ll show you the only time when… and the best way to execute it
- how and when to host a party – a detailed strategy of how to get people to show up and make them lifetime fans
- an easy “mindset shift” at a bar that will make it natural and easy to approach women at a bar (people make it so much harder than they have to!)
- the optimal number of exchanges you should have online before you ask for her number
- should you “buy” on a date? the *correct* answer most dating advice seems to miss
- the problem with online dating if you’re looking for something serious (hint: it’s not about the sex)
- the type of attraction social media is most important for
- 2 examples of well-executed online dating exchanges
- what 9/10 guys do when a girl responds to their message… and why you should NEVER do it
- a significant reason to consider social media even if what you have on there isn’t “cool”
- the best time and place for daygame
- what to do the second you meet a girl on a first date
- a simple piece of advice to follow so your party runs seamlessly
- which types of people to target for friendships if you want to grow your social circle fast
- what a picture really does “speak a thousand words” – and how to leverage that in your favor
- how long you “should” wait for sex with a girl
- the subtle but crucial thing you MUST do on a date if you want to see her again (there’s very little room for error with this)
- why online dating isn’t “bad” but is often used incorrectly – here’s what to do differently
- what the “pros” do to get a girl to respond to their messages… especially when they don’t know anything about her
- “night game” – a comprehensive breakdown of how to attract and close women at bars
- how to physically escalate in a public place
- the way to approach a girl when she’s with a friend (do this and her friend will help you seal the deal)
- the one thing you HAVE to do if you want to hook up with a woman after a date… especially if its only your first or second one
- a powerful and uncommon type of second date (nothing builds romantic momentum like this)
- the LAST thing you should ever allow a girl to do on a date (cancel if she insists)
- a counter-intuitive tell a woman is a “red flag” – if you see this on her profile, turn away
- a powerful little technique that protects you from bad first dates… and makes the good ones even better
- what to do at a party to attract the most beautiful women there
- the arc of a good first date: what do throughout the date, and when
- the best time to meet girls at a bar… and the worst
- your social media and how you can use it to rapidly accelerate your dating life
- the mistake 95% of beginners make at bars (DON’T do this unless you want to look like a loser!)
- the EXACT moment in a “set” when you should get a girl’s number
- the biggest mistake guys make when hosting a party (this can guarantee people will never return again, make sure it doesn’t happen!)
- how long an “ideal” first date should be (there are some exceptions to this, but not many – we go into why in detail)
- how to handle “rejection” at a bar (do this and you’ll very often hook up with the girl later that night anyway)
- the 3 types of women at a bar… and how to approach each of them
- a simple way to know which girl wants to be approached at a bar
- a detailed breakdown of daygame – from approach to number close
- why sleeping with a girl quickly actually has little to do with how much she likes you (and what you HAVE to do if you really want to get her hooked)
- how a girl should feel when she reads through your profile (if this doesn’t happen, she’s clicking away!)
- a simple photo tip to improve your “swipes” dramatically
- the “formula” of how much you should disclose (and what) so a girl remains curious but feels like she trusts you enough to see you again
- the perfect ratio for a house party – and why you can’t mess this up (no, more girls is not always better)
- approaching girls in groups – how to do it without getting “blown out”
- how to make a girl “hook” once you’ve started talking to her
- the 2 essential criteria to consider when planning on meeting women “in real life”
- why you need to watch out if a girl insists on paying
- the right way to make statements about things you care about online
- the profiles that capture a woman’s attention… and the ones that turn her off
- how to message a girl on an app
- why most of the “pick up” videos you see online are BS and give bad leads – here’s what you should do instead
- the difference between “harem material” girls and women you should get “exclusive” with
- a simple and effective way to stop a woman on the street
- instagram closes – and why you should be cautious (unless this one thing applies to you)
- what you need to do to attract women in “high energy” environments
- a fun and powerful technique that almost guarantees to get a girl laughing
- the best “seat” in a venue for a first date
- expectations of your woman- which ones show leadership, and which ones just reflect poorly on you
- understanding the unconscious fantasies of women and how to “become” exactly what she’s looking for
- the “vibe” you want to create on a first date (mess this up and she’ll either think you’re a creep or just a friend)
- the 5 tiers of women – how to know exactly the type of woman you’re dating
- when to physically escalate with a girl on a date and how
- how to “warm up” for the night… so women are drawn to you the moment you enter the venue
- the 4 primary types of people you will connect with… and how you must “connect” differently with each of them
- the mistake guys make ALL the time on first dates which gets them “friendzoned”
- “soul mates” – are they a real thing?
- And that’s not all…
Module 5 – Relationship Management and Intimacy
This module examines relationships — key topics include but are not limited to handling jealousy and infidelity, managing conflict and moods, becoming a leader in your marriage, and deepening intimacy. It also covers everyone’s favorite topic: sex! And not only how to be extra good at it, but how to eliminate performance issues.
Topics in the module are:
- the 2 sides of attraction, and how to balance them (essential if you want anything to happen romantically with a woman)
- when to get aggressive with competition
- “comfort” issues in a relationship, and what women do when they don’t get enough of this
- jealousy in a woman: is it a good or bad thing? the 2 types and what you need to know
- dread game: is it a good thing? when and how to use it
- vulnerability in relationships – why it can improve or destroy a relationship
- the common manosphere approach to saving your relationship – and why it can often make it WORSE
- the easiest way to “supercharge” your woman’s femininity (this makes even the “hardest” woman go soft)
- the 2 mistakes guys make when they’re having issues with their woman, which practically guarantees a relationship will end
- how to respond when another guy flirts with your woman (do this and she’ll become more attracted to you – even if the guy is “above you”)
- STOP DOING THIS NOW – the mistake EVERY man has made with an emotional woman
- why women “abuse” men – and how to stop it
- how a lack of desire destroys relationships… and how to reverse it
- male friendships: why they matter, even if you’ve found “the one”
- the easiest kind of relationship – and how you and your woman can co-create it
- how to “heal” your woman’s emotional wounds
- the way you should think about your weaknesses (a counterintuitive approach that actually makes them go away faster)
- good fighting and bad fighting: the difference (and how to make sure you’re only doing the former)
- how to handle infidelity and jealousy (and prevent it from *ever* happening)
- why you always need to be prepared to leave a relationship
- “deep game” – a little discussed form of game that makes women fall HARD for you (use this carefully: it works even if you’ve only been dating for weeks)
- how to reignite your woman’s desire for you… even if you’ve been together for years
- the strongest mindset you can cultivate – and how
- “saying no” – why you should be doing this more often… just make sure you do it in the right way
- how to lead in a way that will get even the most “difficult” women to follow
- erotic hypnotism – how to learn about it
- the solution to premature ejaculation
- when to ask a woman for her support – with an important caveat
- interdependence vs codependence
- “alpha widowing” – making sure your woman feels like no other man can compare to you
- female orgasms: the 3 main types
- what the mainstream *and* the manosphere get wrong about vulnerability
- the problem with how most guys think about fights
- what a woman does 4/5 times when she’s cheating
- “alchemy” in relationships
- the “mindset shift” one of my mentors taught me that eliminated resentment in my relationship
- dealing with a woman who gets angry and violent
- what you need to remember when another guy wants your girl (that is, if you want to keep her)
- what to remember when another woman is interested in you
- how men inadvertently abuse women, which drives them “crazy” (hint: this is why most men complain about “crazy women”)
- why most guys lose frame throughout relationships
- what women are looking for from their man (do this and she’ll never have cause to leave you)
- how to talk about your feelings in a relationship – and how not to (do this wrong and you’ll turn her off big time)
- a counterintuitive way to get your woman to “behave” better in the relationship
- how to stop resentment dead in its tracks
- the attitude most men and women have in their relationships which are CANCEROUS to intimacy (fix this if you want to keep the spark alive)
- boundaries – what they are, and how to cultivate them
- how to be dominant in a relationship without being controlling (this subtle shift makes it easy to “hold frame” – no matter what she throws at you)
- dealing with dark fantasies (and whether you should reveal them to your woman)
- exactly how to touch a woman to get her to cum
- why ambition is a double-edged sword for women
- the “mental mistake” most guys make in bed that turns women off big time
- a clear-cut sign you should NEVER do what your woman asks you
- sexual expectations with your woman – this is a problem, and here’s how to stop them
- what sort of dynamic you should be creating in a relationship if you want to keep things exciting
- why porn is bad – not good – for your sex life
- what women tend to do after children that can RUIN a relationship (here’s how to prevent it)
- lust vs love – how to balance the two in a relationship
- why performance issues aren’t a bad thing in some cases
- polyamory: my uncensored opinion (based on having lived in these communities)
- what to do when a woman gets moody or emotional (handle this incorrectly and you’ll only make it worse)
- how to make sure a relationship stays passionate even with kids
- why conflict can actually be a good thing in a relationship (for some relationships, it’s an amazing sign)
- what you need to accept about your woman if you want to have an incredible sex life with her
- passive-aggressiveness – how it develops, and how to stop it (and get her love and affection instead)
- what the man’s role in a fight is (ignore everything your father probably told you)
- performance anxiety – what to do if you can’t get it up (and how to make sure it stops happening in the future)
- PLUS MUCH MORE!
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